Keeping Lent During Coronavirus; National Day of Prayer

My article, “How to Stick with Lent During Coronavirus,” is up at Catholic Stand. When I began writing it Thursday, I at first focused on the “how to” part of this - how to adapt what you’re doing to stay in the actual practices of Lent. Virtual Mass, increased prayer, particularly for an end to the pandemic, and so on.

What ended up happening, though, is that I became extremely interested in the broader, metaphysical opportunities for solidarity within a global crisis like this. Specifically, the way it unites all mankind, not just in the current day-to-day suffering, but across time. So we are comfortably quarantined with WiFi and Klondike bars (if you were smart): what about the very first Christians in hiding in the days following Jesus’s death and Resurrection? One can imagine them all huddled together, awaiting the Romans (I recall the 2016 Joseph Fiennes movie Risen did a good job portraying this. There’s an entertainment idea for your days spent indoors). We can also remember Christian communities around the world practicing their faith in secret on a daily basis where the Church is underground. China is an obvious example. Or even think of those who are homebound for health reasons and never have access to the Eucharist, unless someone remembers and has the time to bring it to them. Remembering these people opens up opportunity for prayer, meditation and reflection.

That was something the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius taught me: sometimes it is good to meditate on suffering because it is as if you are being with a friend who is suffering. Specifically, Jesus.

Then something else happened this weekend: President Trump declared today a national day of prayer. About time.

I called this, let me tell you. A couple days ago he gave an address at 9 pm - I think it was Thursday night - and I jokingly texted a couple friends , “Do you think he’s going to announce a period of fasting and prayer"?” I had in mind the White House’s Ash Wednesday message proclaiming the tradition of Ash Wednesday as a reminder to “repent and accept the Gospel more fully.” In case it wasn’t clear, President Trump has a few Catholics working for him.

Anyway, obviously, I believe prayer is very much a part of the solution to what is happening in our world. Always, not just now. And calling on God as a nation has been a fundamental part of our culture and tradition since day one.

Just two weeks ago - as all of this was beginning to break - I was at the Capitol and got to see the Chapel, part of the US House of Representatives Office of the Chaplain, where members of Congress can pray. There is a stained glass window with an image of George Washington kneeling and praying (I would have preferred Our Lady of Guadalupe, Patroness of the Americas, but that’s fine).

I picked up a brochure on the way out, which explains the role of the chaplain, the office’s history, and a few key quotes. Here’s one:

“I have lived, sir, a long time, and the longer I live, the more convincing proofs I see of this Truth: that God governs in the Affairs of Men…” Benjamin Franklin, June 28, 1787, from a speech to the Constitutional Convention

And also this prayer from Episcopalian Rev. Jacob Duche, the first prayer of the Continental Congress in 1774:

“Be though present, O God of Wisdom, and direct the councils of this honorable assembly; enable them to settle things on the best and surest foundation. That…truth and justice, religion and piety, prevail and flourish amongst the people. Preserve the health of their bodies and vigor of their minds; shower down on them and the millions they here represent, such temporal blessings as Thou seest expedient for them in this world and crown them with everlasting glory in the world to come.”

That seems just as appropriate a prayer for today’s leaders in government as it was in 1774.

So, as for me on this National Day of Prayer, I made pancakes for breakfast because Sunday is a feast, and plan to do what I can to support a local business by ordering a takeout burger and milkshake from one of my neighborhood restaurants for dinner (again, Sunday is a feast). I did go to Mass in Arlington last night, as our Diocese is still open, so I may put off watching a virtual Mass until I have no choice (which I suspect will be as soon as this week). Going for a walk with a friend and her little girl (though I don’t think we will share our usual hugs due to #socialdistancing). Writing a few snail-mail letters (and sealing them with a wet washcloth!). These are all strange little adaptations, which amount to nearly no inconvenience. And I will think about this if and when things get worse and I do feel a tendency to grumble, and remember that no matter what, God is with us.

The resilience of ordinary people & God is still with us

I enjoyed these videos of Italians, quarantined in their homes amidst the deadly coronavirus outbreak, singing to pass the time and lift their spirits. The author of the tweet phrased it well: the singing is a beautiful demonstration of the resilience of ordinary people.

Two weeks ago, no one had any idea what was coming, at least not here in the United States, and the worst is not yet past. What can I liken this to? It’s like a natural disaster but slower, and like wartime, but quicker. Food and medical supply shortage, quarantines, curfews, canceled events, economic uncertainty. Even if the virus ends up taking fewer lives than feared - God willing - it does not matter, because this has, irrevocably, become an historic global event.

And I wonder - what will change after this? Will more universities and work places permanently default to telework? Will the government continue waiving student loan interest? Will more people opt to homeschool their kids? How will the global supply chain change to ensure more things are made in America, and we are better prepared for future threats to our stability? These are not questions I would have imagined even a week ago.

Yesterday I quickly wrote an article about how to keep Lent in the midst of coronavirus, and it will be live on Catholic Stand tomorrow. I had to go back and make edits today, though, that’s how quickly things are changing; my own Archdiocese of Washington canceled all public Masses and gatherings at Church late yesterday. Today, the President declared a national state of emergency. So, this is where we are.

I will share the article tomorrow, which has practical tips (yes, I think it’s totally fine and normal and good to make an improvised Stations of the Cross in your home or backyard if your parish is closed). What I wanted to communicate is that God is still with us, even in this bizarre time.

I wrote:

“No doubt most of us would not have chosen this crisis to impact the world, but God, for some reason, has allowed it to happen. What can I learn about solidarity, care for others, patience, and letting go of my plans in this time? What about the reminder of the eternal connectedness of humankind, one in the body of Christ, suffering together around the world? There is something God is pointing out to us, and we can ask Him what that is in prayer.”

Indeed, there are many prayers that come out of this crisis. More:

“…that feeling of isolation many are experiencing opens up a world of meditations: what did Christ feel like in His last days, abandoned and alone? What did His disciples feel and experience in the days following Jesus’s death, as they hid from the Romans? What about those practicing their faith in secret every single day in countries where the Church is underground? How can I grow in compassion for those who spend their entire lives isolated, in prison or a nursing home? What we are experiencing is temporary; for others, quarantine is a way of life.”

Many people are stepping up to help the elderly and immuno-compromised get the food and supplies they need. Others are suggesting donating to food banks. Some are providing a temporary home for displaced students who are on extended mandatory spring break. These are all expressions of that singing of the Italians. The resilience of ordinary people facing an extraordinary thing. It is evidence of God’s ability to bring good out of bad, and it is all a sign of hope, even when there is no end in sight.

“Though you may have been dispersed to the farthest corner of the heavens, even from there will the LORD, your God, gather you; even from there will he bring you back.” Deuteronomy 30:4

Email Etiquette Class: April 29

Folks, I am pump-diddly-umped to share information on the email etiquette class I developed and will be teaching at General Assembly DC on Wednesday, April 29. REGISTER TODAY!

Thank you GA for this fun image

Details:

What: Workshop on Email Etiquette

Where: General Assembly DC, 509 7th St NW, Washington, DC 20004

When: Wednesday, April 29, 6:30-8:30 pm

About This Workshop

Register for this class to learn the do’s and don’ts of writing effective, positive, proactive email communication. Learn simple steps to guide your tone and professionalism when emailing, and learn when it’s time to move the conversation offline and face to face. Bring your sample troublesome emails and learn how to address them constructively with real-life, practical examples.

Takeaways

• The difference between writing professional and personal emails

• The advantage of being a proactive emailer

• When to use exclamation marks

• How to effectively find and set a meeting time with multiple parties via email

• The golden rule: never complain, never explain (in email writing, and in life!)

• And more!

I think the part I am most excited about is a.) hearing what concerns people have about emailing proactively, positively and professionally (why do we make email so complex?), and b.) also having the discussion about when to move from email to in-person discussion. Sometimes ya just gotta do it.

Register today!